Our parents are the yesterday who gave us today,we are the today going to give our kids the tomorrow.Many things we disagreed then, today we realize it was right and now our kids disagree to the same.Phases of life move in circles without an end point.So just keep moving 😊.

Juhu beach,one the most famous and visited beaches.

Famous for local delicacies and street food. The food stalls set up here offer excellent cuisines and mouth watering snacks.Place to relax and enjoy after a long, tedious day.

Watching the sunset there is a dream like vision.A great place to be with friends and family,it’s easy on your wallet and all in all fun.Not a place for swimming and surely not for sun bathing.

Mumbaikars lead a fast pace life and the beach is a complete contrast to it,when you face the beach and stand you feel everything around has come to a standstill.

It is a crowded place and each one has his\her own reason to be there.Mornings you would find joggers, many celebrities are regular there.The magic about the beach is even when you walk alone on the beach it will not bore you.

Afternoons are mostly love birds there,teenagers.

Evenings,the real carnival time – Beach cricket, making sand castles,many would have made castles with a cave down and shook hands with friends\parents.

Not to forget the balloons,multicolored paper fans,toy sellers,tattoo artists and the best of all the guys who predict the future.We also have the mobile hawkers selling chana jor garam.The pestering hawkers and beggars…

I am going to leave alone the cleanliness and parking issues else that will become the discussion and the sweet memories will vanish.

Food we look for –

Pav bhaji,masal pav,kala katta and milkmaid golas,faloodas,juices,chaats etc….drooling already.

Rides we look for – horse rides,giant wheels,merry go rounds etc..

Most of us have seen better and serene beaches in other parts of India and abroad.Waters where you can see your reflection clearly.

Despite the negatives,it still brings back a lot of memories.Now we have various options to take our kids but once upon time for most of us juhu beach was the only option,a weekend getaway.We would go in large groups – family,building friends ……So much of packing – spare clothes,bed sheets,mats,packed food,frootis’….

How far things have changed today-

Friends go to the beach,they are seated and munching some food from the stalls.After sometime they see some poor kids walking towards them asking for money,which is a normal feature there.The friends decide to buy them food instead of giving them money – very noble.

After giving them the food one of them decides to go and sit besides them and says let’s eat together, wow again what a thought.

He calls out to his other friend and tells him , ” ek photo khich de yaar” ,one of the kid spontaneously ,”Bhaiya Facebook pe da loge” the guy suddenly goes speechless and ashamed.He asks the kid tumhe kaise pata – kid says aaj kal yeh hi

tho hota hai- sab kuch Facebook ke liye hota hai.

Heard my old weighing scale talk to the new one – All the best to you!

I have been serving them for the last few years.Keep this in mind you can never make this family happy.They are way too demanding,you would be expected to give higher numbers for their children but they less for them.They will always have a grumpy face and will never trust you.Pray they move you to the kitchen, may be then your presence would have some control over them and give them a reason to smile 😦 :-p.

Life is a book with chapters displaying the different phases.

Some happy moments,some sad,joys,failures,lessons,

achievements,pride.Each chapter taking you towards the end of your journey.You have been the author throughout but then the end, the highlight of your journey is captured by somebody else.

Do we talk or make backup plans for our children if they fail in their exams? Do we talk to them about options (fall back)?

We normally discuss ,what subjects to take,which college to apply?

It’s good to be positive at the same time practical.

We don’t always fail because we don’t work hard.

Sometimes it’s just a bad day.One bad day can’t cost our life.

This beautiful life has a purpose and we live in an era where there are umpteen options.

Why are exams (boards) so overrated?

Don’t people fail professionally,in relations…We fail many times.We should discuss failure it’s not a shame.

Don’t buckle your kids under your pressure.

When you plan their future also consider planning what if it doesn’t happen this way and make a list of options.

Relieve them from the burden\stress.

Let them know you are always there with them good or bad.

Reassurance reduces anxiety.

School kids leaving their houses and running away or ending their lives – why?

Discuss with them about their exams ,how they performed – Don’t make it a closed ended conversation good or bad?

Let them talk.

We all want somebody to hear us 👍🙏

Kapil was back from his annual leave and was resting in his room. He was tired and a bit unwell after his hectic travel. (knock at the door) Hey Kapil! “Got to know you are back, so came to see you”, said Kartik his younger brother. How was your holiday? Hope you had a great Birthday. I keep thinking how do you enjoy going to the same place every year. “It was good”, said Kapil. “You don’t look so well, what happened”? asked Kartik. Well, nothing new its the same old thing. It started off well, a warm welcome, music, great food. They took care of me royally and my diet too. Ten days of royal treatment! The last day is the day I dread or should I say I have been dreading for years now. Every year I go with a hope to see a change but get disappointed. (Kartik getting annoyed) -Why do you have to go every year, when they can’t keep up the same commitment. “It’s not like that Kartik” said Kapil. They wait for me the whole year and prepare for my visit. I cannot disappoint so many people for a few. That won’t be fair. (Kartik getting furious)-Look at your joints, that swelling hurts. If they love you so much, how could they do this to you. I can see you have a fracture too. (Kapil’s eyes swollen and filled with tears) You are right brother. They wait to see me off but they don’t wait till I’m out of sight. Wish they turned back to see, if I was safe. What happened to me may heal in couple of days but what I saw will remain with me forever and that saddens and angers me the most. “And what is that?” asked Kartik (sounding concerned) After ten days of royal treatment I never expected my farewell to be so dark. Hundreds of thousands had gathered to bid me goodbye. It was emotional both sides. In the midst of the crowd were some who had consumed liquor and were misbehaving with young girls and women. It was shameful for me. I could neither hold my head high nor could I hide myself.
{Yes, Kapil is Ganesha for you, the remover of all obstacles and the giver of unlimited happiness}.
Also, the mother water has been polluted with pop and toxics. She is getting choked with plastic. They don’t realize they will soon be
the reason for their end. They are their own biggest enemy, by not protecting their planet. If they don’t realize soon I will also not be able to help them. “This saddens me the most Karthik”, said Kapil.

There are some people whose existence seldom matters and there are some others who may have left us physically but they live in our hearts and share every moment of our life.
Such is the irony of life…The positive energy emitted from the soul is what matters; be it from a dead or an alive. That’s why they say a soul never dies…

Comments

1. Vijay Kushvaha10 January 2018 at 08:35
   

Prioritize your passion.When you have a hobby you don’t always need people around.It helps you destress and rejuvenate your mind.Hobby can be anything you are passionate about.We all surely have one atleast!

Don’t be very Happy just because you are somebody’s first choice.Happiness is when you are also their last choice.

As friends we started talking
then joking and laughing
for the very silly reasons
I became fond of you
Our hands clashed while we wrote
little did we know that there was so much more
I caught you looking at me
saw that twinkle in your eye
that made me smile
and my heart beats ran a mile
Today I sit and ponder on those days
I really don’t know why I gave away
I had no pictures no postcards
All I was left with was memories in my mind
One day you will remember me
And the love I had for you
You are going to hate yourself
for letting me go
Even today I feel my place is in your arms
If we are soul mates our paths will cross again
Even today your smiles make me weak
and my tears start to leak
That maybe another world but I know
we will meet and this time forever