There are some people whose existence seldom matters and there are some others who may have left us physically but they live in our hearts and share every moment of our life.
Such is the irony of life…The positive energy emitted from the soul is what matters; be it from a dead or an alive. That’s why they say a soul never dies…

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1. Vijay Kushvaha10 January 2018 at 08:35
   

Prioritize your passion.When you have a hobby you don’t always need people around.It helps you destress and rejuvenate your mind.Hobby can be anything you are passionate about.We all surely have one atleast!

Don’t be very Happy just because you are somebody’s first choice.Happiness is when you are also their last choice.

As friends we started talking
then joking and laughing
for the very silly reasons
I became fond of you
Our hands clashed while we wrote
little did we know that there was so much more
I caught you looking at me
saw that twinkle in your eye
that made me smile
and my heart beats ran a mile
Today I sit and ponder on those days
I really don’t know why I gave away
I had no pictures no postcards
All I was left with was memories in my mind
One day you will remember me
And the love I had for you
You are going to hate yourself
for letting me go
Even today I feel my place is in your arms
If we are soul mates our paths will cross again
Even today your smiles make me weak
and my tears start to leak
That maybe another world but I know
we will meet and this time forever

The paradox of our time in history is that we have taller buildings, but shorter tempers; wider freeways, but narrower viewpoints. We spend more, but have less; we buy more, but enjoy it less. We have bigger houses and smaller families; more conveniences, but less time. We have more degrees but less sense; more knowledge, but less judgement; more experts, yet more problems; more medicine, but less wellness.

We drink too much, smoke too much, spend too recklessly, laugh too little, drive too fast, get too angry too quickly, stay up too late, get up too tired, read too little, watch TV too much, and pray too seldom. We have multiplied our possessions, but reduced our values. We talk too much, love too seldom and hate too often.

We’ve learned how to make a living, but not a life. We’ve added years to life, not life to years. We’ve been all the way to the moon and back, but have trouble crossing the street to meet the new neighbor. We’ve conquered outer space, but not inner space. We’ve done larger things, but not better things. We’ve cleaned up the air, but polluted the soul. We’ve split the atom, but not our prejudice. We write more, but learn less. We plan more, but accomplish less. We’ve learned to rush, but not to wait. We build more computers to hold more information, to produce more copies than ever, but we communicate less and less.

These are the times of fast foods and slow digestion; big men, and small character; steep profits, and shallow relationships. These are days of two incomes, but more divorce; fancier houses, but broken homes. These are days of quick trips, disposable diapers, throwaway morality, one night stands, overweight bodies, and pills that do everything from cheer, to quiet, to kill. It is a time when there is much in the show window and nothing in the stockroom. A time when technology can bring this letter to you, and a time when you can choose either to share this insight, or to just hit delete.

Remember, spend some time with your loved ones, because they are not going to be around forever.

Remember to say a kind word to someone who looks up to you in awe, because that little person soon will grow up and leave your side.

Remember to hold hands and cherish the moment for someday that person will not be there again.

Give time to love, give time to speak, and give time to share the precious thoughts in your mind.

AND ALWAYS REMEMBER:

Life is not measured by the number of breaths we take, but by the moments that take our breath away.

When I look back it feels as if my childhood got robbed away.Wish I had taken more care of it I would have remained young forever.

I grew up and learnt to be a parent and now I have become a parent reliving childhood.While having fun I didn’t realize I have made such wonderful memories with friends and family.

If today you are fully dependent on your maids for your kid tomorrow your kids will be fully dependent on home nurses for you.Life is a full circle and learning begins at home.

Are we becoming slaves to gadgets?

There is no doubt these gadgets have made our lives very easy and comfortable.

At the sametime we cannot deny the fact that face to face interactions have reduced.

A simple example could be – our phone gets lost and we realise we don’t remember the most important numbers.There was a time we could remember at least 20 numbers comfortably.We don’t remember important dates,if the phone doesn’t beep we easily forget to wish a birthday or an anniversary.

Our kids need to go for classes to get socially active else they wouldn’t know how to interact with people.Was our childhood like this?

Today’s kids are so addicted to gadgets – TV,IPads ,smart phones etc

While eating , in the car everywhere they need these tools to entertain them.Its painful to see kids in the park sitting under trees playing internet games instead of running around and getting involved in physical activities.

We as parents are at fault most times, when we don’t want to be bothered we give them these gadgets without setting any time rules.It later becomes a habit and then a bribe to get a task done and then there is no end to it…When you deny them they get irritated..

Even in a restaurant you sometimes come across families where each one is involved with their gadget, it’s family time please shut it down ,nothing in this world is more important than this…

As kids most of us we went to our grandparents home for vacations and we would look forward to it…To todays kids nothing like this excites – they would ask do they have an internet connection? will I get to play my games? For us there was so much to look forward to – playing with cousins, hogging on the yummy food prepared by our grandmothers….Today’s kids are different, we have made them different ,we are not letting them enjoy their childhood and build memories.

For them sometimes it’s so difficult to strike a conversation and they get bored so fast.Wonder if they know what it really means to feel bored…..

How many kids enjoy board games today? How many kids play word building with parents? How many kids narrate stories?

The outdoor games we played as kids , they haven’t even heard of them.

They only play games where there is coaching involved –

Gadgets are good but we need to have a control on ourselves as well as kids.We should not set wrong examples for them.

With the increasing applications on smart phones and social websites we have no much family time.Inside our houses we send messages to the person sitting in the next room.Where is the world heading to?

As I type I am also trying to find answers for myself…

Life sometimes looks like an exam paper,answering is important but you can decide what to attempt and what to leave.All questions are never compulsory.When you feel you cant write more,don’t waste time pondering over it again and again.Make a rocket out of it and shoot it in the air.Dont forget to watch it fly away as that’s what your mind wants to see.

People who show off or brag about themselves are the most insecured people in the world.For every statement you say they would always have something more to add to their personality.If you are really doing something special give the other person a chance to brag for you.Allow people to discover you,don’t try to paint their minds.Work hard silently and allow your success to make the noise.Allow me to know you,allow me to take time knowing you.Dont rush to tell me things about yourself.Life is journey let’s walk together and discover each other.