Crossing the line in Friendship.

When you are a friendly person , you tend to be approachable and polite.It’s not because you like the person.That’s in your nature an inherent quality you possess.

When you are a smiling person ,you tend to genuinely flash a warm smile in your conversations.It’s not because you want to please the person.That’s your way to spread positivity.

When you are a good listener,you tend to give full attention to the speaker.It’s not because you have all the time in the world.That’s your way of attentively and sympathetically understanding the speaker.

You would agree that the above qualities are found in a good and dependable friend.

We all need such people in our day to day lives.

What many of us don’t realize is just because someone possesses these pleasing qualities it does not give them the right to take him\her for granted.

We are born having too many pre-defined relations but friendship is the only relationship we can choose on our own and if we get it right, our lives become easy to pull through.

They are with us in our highs and lows, ups and downs,happiness and sorrow.

What if your friends take advantage of your niceness and start to behave indifferently.

Emotional pains are more dangerous than any disease as there are no clear symptoms or cure for it.

Just because your friend has been treating you well every-time you wanted to talk or chat does not mean he\she is ready to take any kind of crap.

Treasure your friends,do not misuse the bond.Once the cracks are formed in the relationship they will remain forever.

Treat them the way you would want to be treated.Protect them and not exploit.

Friends will always be your true earnings and your friendship will reflect the warmth.

We constantly make friends in all facets of our life and each holds its own richness of understanding and acceptance.

Positively fuel your friendships and they will never let you wither away.

Practice the pause, you will avoid doing and saying things you may later regret.

My personal experience.

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