Pick your battles!

Is every argument or disagreement worth a fight?

First be wise enough to choose your battle.

Second try to understand if the opposite party deserves to be explained for his\her ignorance or just needs to be made quiet.

If the relationship is important then it’s sometimes fine to lose the argument.Your instincts can be the yardstick.Calculate the downside risks before getting into it.

Fighting too many battles at the same time can lead you to a mental,physical and emotional drain.People around you will inevitably suffer.So it’s important to take a stand.

There is no need to react to every opinion, every comment and every situation.

Choose wisely whether to pick it,push it for another day or just kick it and move on.

Do not pick a battle for someone else just because the person is timid.Let people fight for themselves as we all have enough to deal with.

If your instinct says you should pick it irrespective of the consequences,just go for it.In the bargain you may lose some people but at the end you will be able face yourself in the front of mirror without an iota of regret.

Whatever decision one takes he\she needs to remember that it cannot be on the basis of how many people would stand by him\her but will your conscience support it.

We all need to live with ourselves more than anybody else.

If it keeps reoccurring with the same set of people affecting your mental health then the treatment is keep the toxic away.They may come disguised as family or friends treatment still remains the same.

Do not let them in,it’s like keeping trash that cannot be recycled.