Do we talk or make backup plans for our children if they fail in their exams? Do we talk to them about options (fall back)?
We normally discuss ,what subjects to take,which college to apply?
It’s good to be positive at the same time practical.
We don’t always fail because we don’t work hard.
Sometimes it’s just a bad day.One bad day can’t cost our life.
This beautiful life has a purpose and we live in an era where there are umpteen options.
Why are exams (boards) so overrated?
Don’t people fail professionally,in relations…We fail many times.We should discuss failure it’s not a shame.
Don’t buckle your kids under your pressure.
When you plan their future also consider planning what if it doesn’t happen this way and make a list of options.
Relieve them from the burden\stress.
Let them know you are always there with them good or bad.
Reassurance reduces anxiety.
School kids leaving their houses and running away or ending their lives – why?
Discuss with them about their exams ,how they performed – Don’t make it a closed ended conversation good or bad?
Let them talk.
We all want somebody to hear us 👍🙏
Blessmesai 