Getting Bappa home is not just a ritual, it is an emotion. And when it’s time for immersion, the silence and emptiness that follow leave a void no words can fill.
This tradition began with my mother after my paternal grandmother passed away. As the eldest daughter-in-law, she carried it forward with faith and strength. What started with one and a half days of devotion slowly grew into five beautiful days—because as children, we couldn’t bear to let Bappa go so soon. My mother, with all her love, made it possible for us.
Even after marriage, Ganesh Chaturthi meant being at my mother’s home. My husband, himself an ardent devotee of Ganesha, embraced this tradition as his own. Later, when my son was born, we lived away from India, yet we travelled home every year for the festival—until school schedules made it impossible.
One year, when my mother was with us, we decided to bring Bappa home just for her. That was the beginning of our own tradition. Since then, for 15 beautiful years, Bappa has blessed our home.
For me, these five days are more than worship—they are like having my father back home with me. I feel him in Bappa’s presence. I share my breakfast, lunch, and dinner with him. Singing the aarti three times a day feels like talking to him, heart to heart. I can sit before him for hours, simply staring, simply being—feeling the comfort of having an elder at home who guides, protects, and loves unconditionally.
These are the most precious five days of my year. We wait for them with all our hearts. And with time, our circle has grown—friends who feel the same devotion, the same bond, the same joy of seva. They wait for the invitation, they immerse themselves in the aarti, and together, they have become family through Bappa.
Today, once again, it was visarjan. We bid him goodbye with tears in our eyes and gratitude in our hearts. We come back to a house that feels empty, carrying that void within us. And yet, with that ache comes the hope and the wait—for Bappa to return, to fill our home with love, light, and blessings once again.
🙏✨ Ganpati Bappa Morya! Pudhchya Varshi Lavkar Ya! ✨🙏



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