Diwali in India was never just a festival — it was a family affair, a celebration that touched every corner of our lives. The house buzzing with cousins running around, moms juggling a dozen things at once in the kitchen, dads rushing to buy last-minute diyas, and everywhere the scent of fresh sweets and marigolds. Every detail, no matter how small — from perfectly lined diyas to the new bedsheets — was handled with care and love by our parents.

Abroad, we try to recreate it all. We decorate our homes, light diyas (careful of the smoke alarms!), and make laddoos and namakparas that come close to mom’s—but there’s always something just a little different. Our children enjoy the lights, sweets, and gifts, yet they miss the magic we felt as kids — the anticipation that started weeks before, the little surprises, the togetherness that came effortlessly.

And yet, in trying to bring Diwali to life far from home, we are passing down something just as precious: the love, the effort, and the memories we create together. It may not be exactly like our childhood, but it will always be theirs in its own beautiful way.

Diwali is the time to remove darkness and welcome the light of new beginnings.

Wishing one and all a very Happy and Sparkling Diwali 🪔

They say marriage is made in heaven… but the real episodes are filmed in every DESI home!
Two contestants enter — one with logic, the other with emotions — and the show begins.

Daily tasks?
Who left the lights on?
Who forgot the anniversary?
Why is the towel still on the bed?

Then come the kids — the riots of marriage — adding spice, laughter, and guaranteed chaos.
Fast-forward a few seasons, and those cuties turn into teens — the ultimate plot twist!
You can’t yell at them (it’s like talking to a wall), so all vents go straight to the partner.

And in that Bigg Boss–style home, one has an elephant’s memory for every past conflict… while the other survives purely on selective hearing and short-term recall!

Retail therapy becomes the only commercial break before the next “I told you so” episode.

No eliminations, no prize — just lifetime sponsorship from patience and love.
Because in this Desi reality show called marriage, the drama’s real, the actors unpaid, and the TRPs… unbeatable! 🎬😂

There was a time when bedtime meant switching off the lights and going to sleep right after dinner.

But now, thanks to OTT platforms, bedtime has become binge time!

One episode becomes three, and before we know it — it’s 3 AM and we’re still saying, “Bas last one!”

Remember when our parents used to say, “Early to bed, early to rise”? Now it’s more like, “Early to binge, late to sleep!” 😄

In Desi homes, weekends are no longer about family visits or outings. It’s full-on binge season. Dinner gets delayed, the remote becomes royal property, and ordering food or snacks is just one call away. You can stretch your legs, relax in your favourite spot, and enjoy the show.

Thrillers keep us glued! You pause in between, turn around and ask, “Who do you think is the culprit?” — and suddenly, everyone becomes a detective. Guessing the plot is half the fun!

And let’s not forget those classic Desi lines we all hear while watching:

• “Dekha! I told you he was the killer!”
• “Shhh! Don’t talk during the important scene.”
• “If you watched ahead without me, we’re not talking!” 😄

Watching with your partner? That’s a whole drama in itself. If you dare to watch ahead — that’s serious trouble! It can take days to be forgiven. This is what OTT has done to us!

From bedtime stories to binge nights, OTT has truly changed the game in every Desi home.

One conch sound… and an entire nation paused.

Every 90’s kid will know exactly what I mean when I say — Sunday mornings were sacred.
Not for brunches, not for outings, but for B.R. Chopra’s Mahabharat.

It wasn’t just a television show; it was an event — a grand weekly ritual every household followed with devotion.

The moment that powerful title song began — the deep Sanskrit chants and the echoing conch — something changed in the air.
It felt like a divine call to pay attention.
A voice that said —
“Main Samay hoon…” — those words still give us goosebumps.

Fathers would adjust the antenna just right, elders would call everyone to gather, and children would rush to the living room — eyes wide, hearts steady.
Even during weddings or family functions, someone would always say,
“TV chalu kar do zara, Mahabharat shuru hone wala hai.”
For that one hour, the world outside didn’t exist.
Life paused — as if the whole nation was breathing in rhythm with the story.

And what made it even more special?
It wasn’t bound by religion or region.
People from all faiths, all backgrounds, all corners of India watched it with the same reverence.
Hindus, Muslims, Sikhs, Christians — it didn’t matter.
Because Mahabharat wasn’t about one religion; it was about humanity, duty, and timeless truths.
Every home — whether it had an idol, a cross, or a prayer mat — had its eyes fixed on the same screen.

There were no replays, no streaming apps, no “skip intro” buttons — just that one sacred telecast every Sunday morning.
Miss it, and you’d spend the week catching up through your neighbors’ excited narrations.

Each character felt so real that we still remember them not by their real names, but by the ones they brought to life.
Nitish Bharadwaj will forever be Lord Krishna — calm, wise, and divine.
Puneet Issar — the fierce Duryodhan.
Roopa Ganguly — the graceful yet unyielding Draupadi.
Gajendra Chauhan — the ever-righteous Yudhishthir.
Firoz Khan — the intense Arjun, torn between duty and heart (who later changed his name to Arjun).
Pankaj Dheer — the noble Karna, whose dignity still commands respect.
And Mukesh Khanna — our Bhishma Pitamah, whose every word carried the weight of truth, wisdom, and sacrifice.

We didn’t see them as actors — they were epic souls reborn for our generation.

And when Krishna spoke the words,
“Karmanye vadhikaraste ma phaleshu kadachana…”
we might not have understood it fully then — but the verse lingered in our minds.
It grew with us, whispering its meaning in moments of struggle and reflection.

Mahabharat wasn’t just a story — it was an education in life.

After every episode, living rooms turned into discussion zones — fathers quoting Bhishma Pitamah, mothers admiring Draupadi’s strength, and children re-enacting the war of Kurukshetra with sticks, towels, and unshakable intensity.

Those were simpler times.
One television per home. One channel. One nation watching together.
No scrolling, no spoilers — just pure connection and collective awe.

Today, we have endless OTT platforms, glossy visuals, and remakes — yet none carry the same emotion, depth, or unity that Mahabharat created every Sunday morning.

B.R. Chopra didn’t just give us a television show.
He gave us a memory that refuses to fade.
He gave us a shared heartbeat — an experience that united generations, communities, and faiths.

And today, as we remember those golden mornings, we bow our heads in respect to the departed soul — Pankaj Dheer, our very own Karna.
He will forever remain Karna for us — noble, dignified, and immortal in our memories🙏😢

There comes a time when you stop chasing explanations.
You stop trying to hold on to people who are already halfway out the door.

If they want to walk away, let them.
Their role in your story is over.
Not every person who enters your life is meant to stay till the end — some arrive only to teach you lessons, remind you of your strength, and then quietly move on.

We often get too emotionally invested, don’t we?
We give, we care, we hold space — sometimes too much and when that person starts to drift away, we feel an ache, a void.That emptiness isn’t always a loss,sometimes it’s just life clearing the space for something more genuine, more aligned.

It’s like clearing the clutter in your home.
Every now and then, you open your wardrobe and realize — some clothes just don’t fit anymore. You once loved them, maybe even have memories stitched into them, but now they’re too tight, too faded, or simply not you anymore.
You let them go, not because they were bad, but because you’ve outgrown them.

Relationships are the same way.
We can’t hold on to old connections thinking “maybe someday, it’ll fit again”
because growth changes your shape — emotionally, mentally, spiritually and when something
no longer fits, it’s okay to release it with love.

Don’t let anyone’s absence make you feel incomplete.
Your worth doesn’t decrease because someone stopped seeing it.
Love and connection should never be one-sided. Energy has to flow both ways — if it doesn’t, it drains you.

Stop overdoing for those who meet your warmth with silence.
Stop explaining yourself to people who’ve already made up their minds.
Because peace starts the moment you stop forcing what’s not meant to be.

If someone walks away, wish them well — and keep walking your path.
The right souls never need convincing to stay.

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Like old clothes that no longer fit, some people belong to a version of you that doesn’t exist anymore. Letting go isn’t loss — it’s making room for what fits the person you’ve become.

Meals have a way of bringing people together — laughter, chatter, and the comforting rhythm of serving and sharing. Yet, even around the same dining table, it’s fascinating how different we all are. One meal, one moment, yet so many unique choices on every plate. Isn’t life a bit like that too?

Have you ever noticed how, at a dinner table, everyone reaches out for something different?
Someone can’t eat without Tabasco sauce.
Someone else wants just a spoon of curd to cool things down.
Another loves that tangy pickle bite with every morsel, while one insists the food tastes best plain, unaltered.

A family of four — and four different taste buds.

Same dish.
Different condiments.
Different preferences.

That’s exactly how life is.
We all have the same gift — one life — yet each one of us chooses to flavour it differently.

Some chase success like spice — the more intense, the better.
Some crave peace — like a soft dollop of thick yoghurt gently layered over everything to keep cool.
Some need excitement, change, and a dash of adventure — they’re the ones who love the tangy zest in every moment.
And some, quietly and steadily, prefer life simple — wholesome, steady, uncomplicated.

But the beauty lies in this very difference.
Imagine if everyone liked the same condiment — the same path, same dream, same routine.
How dull that table would look!

A friend of mine finds joy in growing plants and spending evenings talking to them.
Another feels alive only when she’s traveling and meeting new people.
One works tirelessly toward building her business empire; another is happiest when she’s home with her kids, cooking their favourite meal.

None of them are wrong.
They’re just choosing their own flavour.

The trouble begins when we start comparing our plates.
When we look at someone else’s “toppings” and feel ours are less.
When we forget that the dish was meant to be savoured our way — not judged by someone else’s taste.

Maybe life isn’t about finding the perfect recipe.
It’s about discovering what condiment makes your dish come alive — and owning that choice without apology.

After all, one dish can feed many,
but one flavour never satisfies all.

Live your life like your favourite meal — with the condiments that make your heart happy.
Let others enjoy theirs their way.

Some stories never get spoken aloud, yet they live forever in a mother’s heart. This one is for the babies who couldn’t stay — and the mothers who carry them in silence and strength.

It doesn’t matter how small the life was. Once a mother knows there’s a baby growing inside her, she begins to dream. She talks to her baby in her thoughts. She plans, she hopes and prays. When things don’t go right -health fails, or when the baby’s growth slows,her world quietly falls apart.

Some mothers lose their babies because the little one couldn’t survive.
Some because their own body was too weak to carry on.
Some are told it’s safer to let go — for their own life.
None of them ever forget that moment.

There are no congratulations, no tiny clothes waiting at home, no visitors with smiles — only silence and ache. Yet deep inside, that love never ends.

To every mother who went through this pain — you are not alone.
You are a mother, even if your baby couldn’t stay.
Your love, tears and strength they all matter.

The world may forget the day but a
mother never does and with time, she

learns to smile again — softly, bravely.
Love like that never truly ends,
it just finds a quieter place to live inside her heart.

We had some errands to run around our old area, and by the time we wrapped up our shopping, exhaustion and hunger took over. Though lunch was ready at home, we decided to give in to our craving and stop by our favorite Chinese restaurant — Imperial Dragon.

It was the weekend, yet the restaurant was relatively empty. Parking, however, was still a mini adventure! As we entered, we couldn’t help but notice the décor — bright red buntings, tiny Chinese dolls, and plush chair cushions, all bathed in varying shades of red that gave the place a festive glow. The interiors were a thoughtful blend of tradition and modernity — red, black, and gold intertwined to symbolize good fortune, warmth, and understated sophistication.

Inside, the air carried the faint scent of soya and ginger, mingling with the irresistible aroma of sizzling garlic from the kitchen.

We settled into a cozy corner and skimmed through the menu, more out of habit than curiosity — we already knew what we wanted. As we waited for our food, two elderly ladies — perhaps in their late sixties — walked in.

In the center of the dining area stood a long, “Last Supper”–style table, with multiple tables joined together. The ladies took their seats there, and within minutes, the quiet restaurant transformed. Giggles, cheerful voices, and animated conversations filled the air.

One by one, more women joined — silver hair, freckles, glasses, walking sticks, and the kind of grace only time can gift. Their joy on seeing one another was infectious. Soon, the restaurant sounded like a bustling marketplace — laughter echoing, hands reaching out for hugs, gentle teasing, and bursts of applause.

I couldn’t stop watching them from the corner of my eye. There they were — elegantly dressed in soft-hued salwar kameezes, lost in their little world, radiating warmth, comfort, and friendship. Fun truly has no age limit.

And then came the best part.

The restaurant manager — an elderly Chinese gentleman, probably in his seventies — happened to walk past their table. One of the ladies tapped his arm and exclaimed, “Weren’t you in the other outlet about fifteen years ago?”

He smiled, pleasantly surprised. “Yes, yes!” he replied.

The lady beamed like she had just won a prize. “See, I told you!” she announced proudly to her friends.

What followed was a burst of chatter as all the ladies started talking to him at once. The poor man was blushing pink from all the attention. As he walked away, he grinned and said, “Enjoy your lunch, ladies” — and we could tell he meant it.

Soon, their conversation drifted to how long they had lived in Dubai — most had been here for 45 to 50 years.

Somewhere between their laughter and stories, I realized I had overeaten. Maybe it was the food, but I think it was the joy of watching those beautiful souls — still full of life, friendship, and childlike cheer.

I smiled to myself, thinking — that’s exactly how I want to grow old.

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As a silent observer I would like to say –

Moments like these remind me that joy doesn’t belong to the young — it belongs to the spirited. Age might line our faces, slow our steps, and change our rhythm, but laughter, friendship, and warmth keep the heart forever young.
Watching those ladies made me believe that the real art of living lies in celebrating ordinary afternoons — in laughter that spills freely, in stories that refuse to fade, and in hearts that never forget how to find joy in simple things.

We are all different.
We are brought up differently — by different parents, in different homes, surrounded by different experiences.
And because of that, we are all wired differently.

Each of us carries our own little quirks — habits that may seem small but shape how we connect, how we react, how we show up in the world.

One such quirk of mine is that I don’t handle surprises very well.
I get overwhelmed, embarrassed, and often turn shy when someone surprises me.
It’s not that I don’t appreciate the gesture — I do — but in that moment, emotions take over and I don’t know how to react.

Ironically, I love giving surprises.
I love watching that sparkle in someone’s eyes, that burst of joy, the smile that can’t be faked.
There’s something magical about witnessing genuine happiness unfold in front of you.

Then there’s another part of me — I get anxious meeting new people.
So before meeting someone for the first time, I quietly do a bit of homework.
I try to learn a little about their work, their interests, or something they care about.
Not much, just enough to strike the right chord.
And if I sense there’s a topic that might make them uncomfortable, I make sure to stay away from it.
Because for me, a conversation should make someone feel lighter, not burdened.

Over the years, I’ve realized something else about myself —
I have very little curiosity.
I don’t ask too many questions, nor do I nudge people to reply if I sense they aren’t comfortable.
I can change the topic at the drop of a hat, even if the conversation wasn’t directed at me, just to save someone from feeling exposed.
Reading faces and gestures comes naturally to me — a slight shift in tone, a pause, or an uneasy smile, and I know it’s time to steer things elsewhere.
It’s almost like my heart reads the room before my mind does.

I genuinely love people. I love conversations that have depth, that make you feel seen.
I’ve realized that the way a conversation begins often decides how the bond unfolds.
When the chord strikes right, it’s effortless — it flows naturally.
And sometimes, a simple first meeting turns into a lifelong friendship.

Relationships mean the world to me.
They are what keep me grounded and whole.

There’s another side to me — one that doesn’t surface often, but when it does, it is unwavering.I stand firmly for my integrity, my family, and my closest friends.Anyone who tries to cross that line quickly realizes that I don’t tolerate disrespect.In those moments, I don’t think about who is in front of me — what matters is that respect is never compromised.There is a quiet, unmistakable shift in me when someone challenges my self-respect or oversteps boundaries.It’s not anger for its own sake, but a clear reminder that dignity and love are non-negotiable.

There are also times when I’ve been caught off guard, moments when I couldn’t pull it off as gracefully as I would have liked.
I may have smiled through it all, but once home, I need to clear my system.
Talking about it helps me breathe again.

It’s something that began in childhood.
My father was the first person I would talk to about everything — every small joy, every awkward moment, every silly fear.
He never judged. He just listened.
And that made all the difference.

After he passed away, that habit stayed with me.
Now, it’s my mother or my partner who hears me out.
Sometimes they understand, sometimes they don’t — but the need to talk, to express, to release, always remains.

Because that’s me — someone who feels deeply, who stands tall for what matters, and who believes that every person we meet adds a small story to our life.

We all have our ways of connecting.
Some do it with ease, some take their time.
Some express with words, others through silence.
And maybe that’s what makes each of us beautifully unique — our wiring, our little ways of feeling and expressing love.

So, if you ever find yourself reacting differently than others — don’t be too harsh on yourself.
Maybe that’s just your wiring.
And maybe, that’s exactly what makes you you.

In many homes, there’s one who shines — the confident, charming, ever-energetic partner who lights up every room. The one everyone admires, praises, and turns to when something good happens. “Oh, this must be their doing,” they say.

And then there’s the other one — the quiet constant.
The one who plans, nurtures, manages, and holds it all together, not for applause, but because it needs to be done. They’re the backbone no one sees — the calm beneath the chaos, the invisible thread that keeps everything from falling apart.

But after a while, invisibility begins to hurt.
Not being seen, not being thanked, not being remembered… it chips away at your sense of worth. You start to wonder if your presence matters beyond the roles you play — if anyone notices the countless things you do, or the weight you quietly carry so someone else can shine.Not out of a desire for attention, but because being unseen for too long can feel lonely.

It’s not always anyone’s fault — some people are born to be seen, others to make things happen quietly. But when the balance tilts too much, one becomes the story, while the other becomes a footnote.

And that’s where relationships need tenderness. Because love isn’t about who shines brighter — it’s about how both lights glow together.

✨ Every success has a silent pillar behind it. The world may applaud the one in the spotlight, but it’s the unseen strength that truly holds the home.
In the end, love and respect grow not from visibility, but from acknowledgment — a quiet “I see you,” that means more than a thousand cheers.

To the ones who hold everything together in silence — you may not seek the spotlight, but your light fills the room in ways words never could.