Favoritism is a two-edged sword – in life we find a way to develop some satisfying, favorite relationships. But we also have been hurt at one time or another by …being somebody’s “not favorite.” We have also probably hurt others by not making them a favorite. Giving credit, even when it is not deserved harms less compared to giving blame, even when it is not deserved.
It cant be removed from our life, but being aware of its good and bad aspects helps us to deal with it in a healthy way.
To be fair you don’t need to give the same treatment to everybody , all you need to do is give them what they need.
Favoritism is bug that exists in our society – be it school, within family, workplace etc.
Something that makes it’s debut very early in life –
Author: Anita
Not everything in life is loud. Some of the most powerful stories are whispered, felt, and quietly lived. This is more than writing — it is emotion in its rawest, most relatable form, where every piece becomes a mirror, and every reader discovers a part of themselves. If you have loved deeply, questioned quietly, or grown silently, this space is already yours. Welcome to Abstracts by Anita — where feelings find words.
Random Thoughts;
Today’s world –
Too many options are overwhelming
Too many options sometimes paralyze my mind
Too many options confuse me
Too many options test my confidence…
Too many options make me greedy
Too many options are challenging my decision making skills
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Family & Friends –
You all are pieces of my life’s puzzle and each one of you has a specific place. You cannot exchange places or take somebody else’s place. Nobody is less or more important. Each piece is important and holds its place. Without you my puzzle will be incomplete. Lot more pieces to complete – Life surely is an adventure..
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Move on!
The person who wipes your tears holds a permanent place in your heart.At the same time if you can talk about your past without a tear in your eye it shows you have come to terms with it.
Just before I held her for the first time..
No date was on paper
She said the wait over
I wasn’t ready
Daddy said don’t worry
All will be fine
Its the right time
We sat together
And prayed forever
Then God sent an angel
Who came and took me in
All around preparations were on
Daddy was told to count till ten
And you would be out by then
Our ears got eager
To hear the first cry
They cut the cord
And we heard you loud
We had no more fears
But our eyes had tears
It was indeed the right time
A journey of nine months
Was worth it all –
Blessmesai 