There comes a time when you stop chasing explanations.
You stop trying to hold on to people who are already halfway out the door.
If they want to walk away, let them.
Their role in your story is over.
Not every person who enters your life is meant to stay till the end — some arrive only to teach you lessons, remind you of your strength, and then quietly move on.
We often get too emotionally invested, don’t we?
We give, we care, we hold space — sometimes too much and when that person starts to drift away, we feel an ache, a void.That emptiness isn’t always a loss,sometimes it’s just life clearing the space for something more genuine, more aligned.
It’s like clearing the clutter in your home.
Every now and then, you open your wardrobe and realize — some clothes just don’t fit anymore. You once loved them, maybe even have memories stitched into them, but now they’re too tight, too faded, or simply not you anymore.
You let them go, not because they were bad, but because you’ve outgrown them.
Relationships are the same way.
We can’t hold on to old connections thinking “maybe someday, it’ll fit again”
because growth changes your shape — emotionally, mentally, spiritually and when something
no longer fits, it’s okay to release it with love.
Don’t let anyone’s absence make you feel incomplete.
Your worth doesn’t decrease because someone stopped seeing it.
Love and connection should never be one-sided. Energy has to flow both ways — if it doesn’t, it drains you.
Stop overdoing for those who meet your warmth with silence.
Stop explaining yourself to people who’ve already made up their minds.
Because peace starts the moment you stop forcing what’s not meant to be.
If someone walks away, wish them well — and keep walking your path.
The right souls never need convincing to stay.
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Like old clothes that no longer fit, some people belong to a version of you that doesn’t exist anymore. Letting go isn’t loss — it’s making room for what fits the person you’ve become.
Blessmesai 