When we were growing up in the 80s and 90s, being on time usually meant reaching at least ten minutes before the decided hour. It wasn’t about being over-disciplined, but about being prepared. Starting early also helps to cover for any unforeseen or unpredicted delays that may occur on the way. More than anything, it was a quiet way of saying, “I value your time as much as mine.”
Today, that habit doesn’t hold the same weight. For kids now, reaching “on time” is enough. They don’t see why coming early matters. Life feels more casual, and time is treated as something flexible. And when we bring it up, it turns into a debate. We sound like we’re preaching, and they always seem to have a reason to counter it.
But punctuality has never really been about the clock. It’s about respect, commitment, and responsibility. It’s one of those small values that shape how people see you and how you see yourself. And even if today’s world moves at a different pace, this is still a value worth passing on.
Being on time is not about minutes—it’s about the respect you carry for others and yourself.
“Punctuality is simply respect made visible.”
Blessmesai 