When you can’t relate to someone, it’s like speaking a language you don’t understand. The words make sense, but the meaning doesn’t sink in. You try to listen, you try to respond, yet it feels like something is missing.
With some people, it’s effortless you talk and they just get you even without explaining everything. The conversation flows, the silences are comfortable, and you feel lighter just being around them. That’s when you know you’re speaking the same “language.”
But with others, no matter how hard you try, the rhythm is off. You explain yourself but they don’t see it. They share their thoughts but you can’t quite grasp them and it’s not anyone’s fault it just means you’re wired differently.
The truth is, we won’t connect deeply with everyone we meet. And that’s okay. Not every person is meant to understand us, and we’re not meant to understand everyone. What matters is finding those few people who make you feel understood without effort because with them, you don’t just talk, you truly connect.
Blessmesai 