We share everything with each other from the time of birth to the growing up years.
Every relationship is also shared.
Growing up in the same household,eating the same kind of food and sharing all the ups and downs the family is going through.
We automatically learn to share and care.
The bond keeps growing stronger with time.
If you are the older sibling you would develop a sense of responsibility towards your younger sibling.
The older sibling also takes care of the social and emotional needs of the younger one. First-born siblings engage in leadership, teaching, caregiving, advocating and helping roles.Most of these can be related by the 90’s kids who come from the middle class families.
If the age gap is bigger you also develop the maternal instinct, fostering a sense of security and stability within the family which happens very organically. Older sisters emulate their mothers giving their guidance and mentorship to the younger siblings.
You are fine to give away your share of chocolates or anything else the younger sibling lays his\her eyes on.
Protecting the younger one from bullies ,standing up for him\her and sometimes advocating for them going against your parents.
Losing to them while playing board games or cards just to make them happy can be quite annoying.
They are your forever guinea pig on whom you could try new recipes.
If you can relate to any of these then you would have had an amazing power packed childhood.
Such relationships have a strong foundation because you grew up with minimal and found pleasures in each others achievements.There were no gifts exchanged but you shared your favorite food together reminiscing the years together.
It’s indeed a moment of pride to see how your sibling is doing well for himself\herself.
A relationship that always reverts you back to your childhood memories.
To all of you siblings who are celebrating today, lots of love to you ❤️❤️
Blessmesai 