Relationships are not complex we make them!

New relationships can be very fascinating and mesmerizing initially.If it keeps you close to your loved ones it’s a boon else it’s toxic.

Don’t sacrifice your old bonds for new ones.Today you may find this new connection very poetic but do not forget to acknowledge the old bonds who taught you the notes to read this new poem.

Everything changes when you enter a new relationship but ensure you make room for everyone – the people who were already there and the new debutant.

Do not ghost anyone as they have all been a significant part of your life at some point -good or bad.

All relationships need to be nurtured else they die an untimely death.

No one relationship should diminish the value or overshadow others.

We don’t always choose who we love, but we do get to choose how we love them.Keep them close,prioritize.

Nothing is constant ,sometimes you have to go ,move on and leave things behind.Communicate,that’s least you could do because how you left will always stay with them.

Some people in our life are irreplaceable and their absence makes the heart feel torn apart .A tiny part of you goes out with them.

Looking at “replacing” them is a mistake. If we see each person we meet as an individual with their own unique strengths and weaknesses it’s more realistic to move on even if we lose them.

To heal one has to move on,let go and cherish the memories.

For that to happen closure is important with all those relationships that are no more part of your life.Hence I would once again say communication is important.

Closure helps to deal with loss,rejection and gives clarity why we fell apart and moved on in our respective lives.

Having a variety of relationships with different people is healthy – takes care of your mental health and well-being.

Explore a relationship but not exploit 🙏❤️

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