Motherhood -Overly rated

Being a mother is incredible!

You need not give birth to a child to get that emotion correct. Being an older sister or an aunt \having a pet one can have the same emotion.

Childlessness still remains a huge stigma in our society where women are often defined by motherhood. In some parts of India if you are childless you are not allowed to participate in certain rituals.

How cruel is that?

I am sure there are similar stories in other parts of the world.

Why is not having a baby still a taboo?

There can be various personal reasons attached to it –

a CHOICE, miscarriage, stillborn or any other medical issue in self or spouse; reasons could be various –

a childhood abuse or abusive relationship with the parents…

Have you ever thought how your behavior or question could affect the person?

How do you decide to guess their reason –

For you their biological clock is ticking, but for them it could be on mute.

Why do you expect them to share the reason with you??

Why would you sympathize or judge them??

Who made you the authority???

Have you ever thought about it…

Well some would say,we care so we ask.. if you care leave it to them..

Let them choose you to confide upon, you need not volunteer…

Sadly it’s women most of the times questioning or taunting the other..

Children don’t bring happiness or complete families if that was the case only people without children would go for legal battles..

Maintaining the peace and harmony is everybody’s responsibility in a family.

Respect the person not their titles..

Each one has his or her own definition to happiness..

There is no standard way of living a life..

Our script writer ,”The almighty” has a plan for all of us why not focus on our own role.