Some couples live separate lives even when they sleep under one roof. They have separate hobbies, friends, careers, exercise routines, and chores. Their lives are like the rail tracks – parallel to each other—they may even be well coordinated—but they do not intersect. And if your lives don’t intersect, you will not connect.Try involving yourself in your spouse’s interest, the involvement will create the connection.Talk about your interests , share as much as you can, do things together it will be lot of fun.
To achieve this the first thing one should learn to say is “WE” and let go the “I” behind.For many people it is very difficult.It should be a conscious effort and then you will see the magic in your life.You will give and also have more family time.